Friday, 5pm. The managers' sync.
The new manager is drowning in a job nobody described. They still do their old work (they're good at it, it's safe) and manage in the gaps. The team has noticed. The team always notices.
The 1:1s keep getting moved. The underperformer gets vaguer instead of clearer. The best person on the team is quietly reading job ads, because nobody has asked them a real question in three months.
A skip-level conversation reveals the whole thing: the team thinks the manager is aloof. The manager thinks they're being kind. Both are acting in good faith, and neither has ever been shown what a real 1:1 looks like.
I ran programmes at BT scale and held the £2m budget that paid for them: real teams, real deadlines, real accountability, and managers learning the job in the deep end. The managers who made it all had the same three habits. Habits can be taught.
Management isn't a personality. It's a set of moves. Moves can be trained.